Hmm.
Hopeless Romantic?
I often wonder how many people find and keep love anymore. I know too many people in divorce, or recently divorced. And while sure some marriages are just bad, I wonder if people don't try very hard to stay together.
Where is the line between dopey romantic and realist.
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I think love grows over time. So it is easy to just jump off the wagon after a few years but the deepest kind of love just takes longer than that.
Mike, it's hard when only ONE partner of the two is the one trying hard to keep the marraige together and the other one just thinks solely about himself. Selfishness does not make a marraige work.
I've been an ideal wife to my husband, but yet he wants to go out and find other women -- I have never cheated, when he comes home I serve him his food while he waits patiently at the table and I take off his shoes and bring him his slippers so that he can relax. I CAN SAY THAT NO OTHER WOMAN DOES THAT NOW A DAYS, but yet I do that for him and more, and yet he has to go out and venture out to see if there's someone better than me.
My suggestion is NEVER GET MARRIED. It is not worth the pain and heartache. I lived better with him when we were living in sin and not married. If I can turn back the hands of time!
It still exists. It's just very easy to be cynical - I'm in a relationship, and I am!
now having said that, here I am, the same age as you (pretty much, you're older
) and I've been with my boyfriend six and a half years now. I dont live with him (I refuse to until he proposes) and we've gone through some stuff you wouldn't believe.
I have had people tell me they know people who have gone through less than we have in this time frame that are getting divorces. So....
it's out there, it's just not necessarily easy to see.
It still exists. It's just very easy to be cynical - I'm in a relationship, and I am!
now having said that, here I am, the same age as you (pretty much, you're older
) and I've been with my boyfriend six and a half years now. I dont live with him (I refuse to until he proposes) and we've gone through some stuff you wouldn't believe.
I have had people tell me they know people who have gone through less than we have in this time frame that are getting divorces. So....
it's out there, it's just not necessarily easy to see.
It still exists. It's just very easy to be cynical - I'm in a relationship, and I am!
now having said that, here I am, the same age as you (pretty much, you're older
) and I've been with my boyfriend six and a half years now. I dont live with him (I refuse to until he proposes) and we've gone through some stuff you wouldn't believe.
I have had people tell me they know people who have gone through less than we have in this time frame that are getting divorces. So....
it's out there, it's just not necessarily easy to see.
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